Living In All CAPS

Ladies and Gentlemen, my sister:

By all means, please introduce yourself.

Oh hey there. I'm the Big Sister. I like coffee, reading, writing, making lists, and annoying my little brother. Just kidding. (Kind of.)

What's your favorite thing about being married?

Living with my bff. Preshy presh, I know. haha. But seriously, there's something so fun about being with someone who knows every aspect of your life. Like one minute, I may want to tell someone about that weird person at work today and the next, need a hand to squeeze when I get really bad news. And for me, the person that I go to first with both of those things is Adam. Also, he's really freaking funny so that keeps things entertaining. Oh! And as newlyweds (are we still considered newlyweds when we just started year #2?), it has been (mostly) fun to discover each other's idiosyncrasies (of which, Adam has more than me, OBVIOUSLY).

Haha right...

Do you see yourself stickin around KC?

Hmm I don't know. I'm not much of a planner. (Haha. Okay fine, FINE! I'm Type A and proud of it!) But anyway, I don't see us moving anytime soon and I'd guess that we'll be Midwesterners for life. As far as specifically KC, well, we're here now. And that's all I have to say about tha-at.

Good. Mom will like having you close. Plus, you guys can come to my bar!

Lemme preface by saying 'puke' BUT what was/were the moment(s) that you knew you and Adam were in it for the long-haul?

Let me preface this by saying I hope you vomit big time.
Well we were best friends for years before we started dating, which made things interesting. I would say:
-When I read through old journals and realized I had (unknowingly) written pages about him
-When we weren't dating and it sucked
-When he met the fam and passed with flying colors--especially with you and Grandma. That meant a lot.
-When he was in India for a summer and I was about to lose my mind
-When, after icky fights and an emotional breakdown or two (ha), we were both still all in.
I remember Mom saying something once about how when she and Dad were dating there just came a time when she couldn't imagine life without him and didn't want to. That's pretty much what it comes down to, I think.

Well said...Legit.

What're you reading currently?

I am in the market for a good book, actually. Adam and I are about to start this book, which I'm excited about. And I just finished this book, which was interesting but creepy. Lately, I've just been reading a lot of Real Simple. I know. I'm cool.

What comes after the library?

For now, I'm kicking around the idea of becoming a for-real librarian (which means a masters in library science and information technology...which means $$$, no sleep and even more caffeine...haha). Or maybe I'll just become fantastically famous writing stories about you...er, I mean...life as I know it. haha. (I wish.)

What is the next overseas excursion?

We have a few places on our mind, but I'd put my money on India. Just not this year because we need a little thing called funds. haha.

Favorite quote/story/etc... from mom and dad. (There's kids listening so keep it PG..haha)

Mom: All the times we'd try really hard to get her to really lose it laughing. It was a group effort and well worth it because it is hilarious. Also of all the funny phrases she uses: "Oh my stars!" " Oh, you dog!" and "My dogs are barkin" are the first to come to mind but there are quite a few. haha.
Dad: Riding around in his truck belting out "Wild Thing!" And against my better judgment, I have to say that his prank that Christmas when he conspired with the mall Santa Clause to fool his innocent, doe-eyed daughter into thinking that maybe Santa was real after all was pretty good. (I mean, if it were true, but since the video is lost in translation, we just can't be sure. haha)
Brian: The image of you riding your bike against the wind. Okay that is only funny to me. And actually mean. But I had to throw it in there. As Adam would say, my "big sister is showing." haha.

***I'm almost certain there was at least an F4 tornado that night. Who wouldn't have leaped off their bike, running (crying, screaming, ya know...) to the house that was half a block away?? Perfectly logical...and rational...riiiiight?***

First thing to go through your mind when I said I dropped out?First impressions...etc..

I think it went something like this:
1. What the crap.
2. How did I not know?!
3. When did my little brother grow up?!
4. How is everyone in the room handling this?
5. ...This will be an interesting lunch (ha).
I didn't see it coming, so I was surprised and let's be honest, I work hard to "be in the know" so it was definitely a shocker. I remember trying to take everything in and asking a few questions initially, but then realizing that all that matters right now is that you know I am on your side and want you to be happy. (insert long distance hug)

Ha thanks. Yea sorry for keeping you in the dark. The original plan was to tell you and Adam. It was gonna be practice for Mom and Dad haha. Turns out it didn't work out that way. Who knew Mom could shoot such ice crystals from those sweet little eyes of hers?? haha

Quick. Chocolate or conversation? (And I'm talkin REAL GOOD CHOCOLATE.)

Not enough information! Conversation with who? And did I have chocolate for breakfast or have I not yet had my dose of sugar for the day? ...Umm...I'm going to say conversation (but secretly think WHAT KIND OF CHOCOLATE?!).

Fair enough. I should've been more specific...

For all of us 20-somethings, what's your advice on growing-up?

First and foremost, EXCUSE ME. I am STILL a twenty-something thankyouverymuch. (Rude.) It's weird because I feel like I am in no place to be offering advice since I feel far from having things "figured out".
I've been learning lately that I'll always be learning. Maybe that sounds like a cop out but honestly, I think that it's a big deal to be able to shift your thinking from "okay life is about ticking A, B, C, and D off my list and in that order, so let's get started" to "okay life is ever-changing, sometimes crappy, full of questions and a work in progress." That's too simplistic, of course, and I don't actually live like I believe it every day, but it is part of growing up, or it is for me. I think it's important to identify what will be your anchor, your hope, your motivation early on because there will be times when that's all that will keep you going.
I think, too, that it is easy to believe that life is all me, me, me--what do I want out of this, how is this for me, what about my wants/needs/goals/priorities/etc. but that really shouldn't be the case. There are lots of people in this world and you're going to miss out on a lot (and in my opinion, the best things) when you put those blinders on. Sure, we all have individual needs and passions and especially as 20-somethings, the stakes are lower so we can take risks, we can explore our interests and put ourselves out there without putting as much on the line (most don't have families to support, mortgages, etc.).
I guess what I'm trying to say--brevity is not my strong point--is that those are fine things to explore and I am totally not trying to squelch any desire to be creative, or work hard for a goal or really examine what is important for you as an individual. But do it all in community and keep the community in mind. Surround yourself with those who are older and wiser...and listen to them. Invest in those that are younger. Befriend those who will be honest with you and want the best for you. And remember that you have something to offer the world--and your gift is not given for you to merely keep to yourself.
(((Bumper stickers coming soon--haha.)))

Haha didn't mean to insinuate you weren't a 20-something. Don't worry...you're not (that) old.

When's the next 5K???

You tell me. I'll sign up when Dad does. (And you'll both beat me. Dang it.)

Bring it.

Excellent. If that didn't make you LOL or ROLF or whatever the kids are saying these days, I don't know what will. Thanks Sara. You're a pal. Much love.

Brian